Mamma dukes has been home for a day now and I can already tell she is going stir crazy. And let me tell you, she is such a rockstar. Not even joking.
When I went to visit her on Thursday, she had already been walking around. Yesterday, she got released from the hospital, got home, and had to walk that long long pathway to the front door and the even longer distance up the front stairs. Now for those who don't know pain, it's like a mile when you are in it. And she did traveled that distance with grace and a silent determination that honestly brought tears to my eyes.
I never would have thought I would be brought to tears by being so happy for someone. The past few days I have been brought close to tears for that.
Now, it's not to say frustration has not set in for mom. This is a woman who can not stay still at all and is always on the move. Even when she has a cold, she is moving. It's nuts. So to have to stay in bed all day, it's maddening. And it's going to be a tough journey for her. But my mom? She's a tough cookie. She gets up when she can. She sits on the bed or couch when she can. I'm pretty sure she is trying her best not to take her pain medication and just deal but sometimes it's just better to take the medication.
Now I'm hear to entertain her as best as I can, but I know it's difficult. Dad and I sat on Mom's (really Chris's but whatever) bed to eat dinner tonight. Pizza from down the street. And we were just trying to lift her spirits, just like her and Dad used to do for me.
My mother is a beautiful woman who has always had a strength and determination that I always admired. Gotta love her even more now when she is in incredible pain, but still puts on a smile and very rarely complains.
PS. You should see all the get well wishes and such she is getting. She is SERIOUSLY loved.
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